Since the release ofGrey’s Anatomyin 2005, Meredith Grey and Derek Shepherd have become relationship goals for fans all over the world even after Dr. McDreamy’sdeath.

However, despite their undeniable chemistry, their romantic storyline probably would have not existed today.

“If you look at, for example, Meredith Grey [Ellen Pompeo] and Derek Shepherd [Patrick Dempsey] through the lens ofTime’s Upand#MeToo, he was her boss, she was an intern, and she kept saying, ‘No, walk away from me,’ and he kept pursuing her, and that is probably not a story we would tell on the show today, and it’s a beautiful reflection of the changing times,” Grey’s showrunner Krista VernofftoldtheLos Angeles Timesin a recent interview.

“This season, we’re doing a little bit of a reversal as we begin to build this love triangle that’s emerging with DeLuca as one the people in that triangle, and he is a resident and Meredith is an attending, and we’re having to address it differently than we ever would have before,” Vernoff told the newspaper.

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“We’re having to talk about and look at power dynamics. It is an ongoing conversation in the writer’s room. How do we tell that story in a way that feels honest and romantic and sexy and yet proactive and progressive?”

While the show may have had its struggles when it came to the relationships between men and women in the workplace, it has helped shape the lives of many viewers and actors.

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During an appearance onThe Ellen DeGeneres Showin October, Pompeo, 48, toldEllen DeGeneresabout a teen actor on the show that revealed to her how the serieshelped him come out to his parents.

“A teenager was in the show, and he was gay, and played a gay character on the show. After we had filmed the whole entire episode he said, ‘My whole life I’ve watched the show with my parents and I’ve sort of used the show to tell my parents I’m gay,’” Pompeo said tearing up.

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“‘To show my parents: It’s okay that I’m not different and there’s nothing wrong with me. Grey’s really helped my parents to understand what having a gay son meant and that it wasn’t necessarily a bad thing.’”

Reflecting on the interaction caused Pompeo to become emotional. “I got to keep doing it, man, because we’re touching lives and making a difference,” Pompeo added.

Grey’s Anatomyseason 15 premiered on Sept. 27.

source: people.com