Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez.Photo:Lionel Hahn/WireImageJennifer Lopezis opening up about a challenging time with now-husbandBen Affleck.In a Wednesday interview with Apple Music 1’s Zane Lowe, theHustlersactress, 54, recalls how she and theAirstar, 51, called off their first wedding in September 2003, nearly two decades before theyfinally tied the knot.“We didn’t break up right at that moment, it happened over the series of the next few months,” explained Lopez, who eventually split from Affleck in January 2004. “Because what it did was it casted doubt in me, and both of us, about what our relationship was and where it was going, I think.”“I knew in my heart that I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life, I knew that. But it didn’t feel like we were going to make it,” continued Lopez, whose new filmThis Is Me…Now: A Love Storypremieres Friday on Prime Video. “And so, it scared me.”Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck.Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagicLopez, whomet Affleck in 2002 while making the movieGigli,said they weren’t “mature enough” to figure out their relationship.“Even though he was in his late 20s, I was in my early 30s, it still, it wasn’t … we weren’t ready to deal with, and look at each other and go, what we have is real, we need to buckle down, we need to do some work,” she explained. “We just weren’t there yet.”After their breakup, Lopez married singerMarc Anthony, with whom she shares 15-year-old twins Max and Emme. She and Anthony split in 2011 after seven years of marriage.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez at the Los Angeles Special Screening Of “Marry Me” on February 08, 2022 in Los Angeles, California.Frazer Harrison/GettyTheArgodirector went on to wedJennifer Garnerin 2005. The couple welcomed Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11, before breaking up in 2015.“We went, and we both tried, and found other people, and had beautiful children, and had other families, and then even had other relationships after that,” Lopez said in her interview with Lowe.“It wasn’t until both of us had done, I know for me, a lot of work, and got into a place where I was like, ‘You know what? I’m totally good on my own. I’m chill, I love my life, I have this amazing career that I’ve built for myself, I have these amazing children … I have great friends.’ That’s when he showed back up,” she said.She and Affleck reunited as a couple in 2021 and wed in a surprise Las Vegas ceremony the following year.At Tuesday night’s Los Angeles premiere ofThis Is Me…Now, Lopezgot emotional while acknowledging Affleck ahead of the screening.“There is the person who inspired this for me, who has inspired me my whole life. He just, he inspired an album 20 years ago and I know he hates that I’m doing this right now," she said, referring to Affleck and her 2002 albumThis Is Me…Then.“He’s just like, ‘Please shut up.’ No! And I say no. I say, I love you and thank you for believing in me and helping me believe in myself,” she said. “And helping me to grow every single day. Thank you for the family that we’ve created and our children and everything that you do for me.“This Is Me…Now: A Love Storyis on Prime Video Friday.
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez.Photo:Lionel Hahn/WireImage
Lionel Hahn/WireImage
Jennifer Lopezis opening up about a challenging time with now-husbandBen Affleck.In a Wednesday interview with Apple Music 1’s Zane Lowe, theHustlersactress, 54, recalls how she and theAirstar, 51, called off their first wedding in September 2003, nearly two decades before theyfinally tied the knot.“We didn’t break up right at that moment, it happened over the series of the next few months,” explained Lopez, who eventually split from Affleck in January 2004. “Because what it did was it casted doubt in me, and both of us, about what our relationship was and where it was going, I think.”“I knew in my heart that I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life, I knew that. But it didn’t feel like we were going to make it,” continued Lopez, whose new filmThis Is Me…Now: A Love Storypremieres Friday on Prime Video. “And so, it scared me.”Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck.Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagicLopez, whomet Affleck in 2002 while making the movieGigli,said they weren’t “mature enough” to figure out their relationship.“Even though he was in his late 20s, I was in my early 30s, it still, it wasn’t … we weren’t ready to deal with, and look at each other and go, what we have is real, we need to buckle down, we need to do some work,” she explained. “We just weren’t there yet.”After their breakup, Lopez married singerMarc Anthony, with whom she shares 15-year-old twins Max and Emme. She and Anthony split in 2011 after seven years of marriage.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez at the Los Angeles Special Screening Of “Marry Me” on February 08, 2022 in Los Angeles, California.Frazer Harrison/GettyTheArgodirector went on to wedJennifer Garnerin 2005. The couple welcomed Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11, before breaking up in 2015.“We went, and we both tried, and found other people, and had beautiful children, and had other families, and then even had other relationships after that,” Lopez said in her interview with Lowe.“It wasn’t until both of us had done, I know for me, a lot of work, and got into a place where I was like, ‘You know what? I’m totally good on my own. I’m chill, I love my life, I have this amazing career that I’ve built for myself, I have these amazing children … I have great friends.’ That’s when he showed back up,” she said.She and Affleck reunited as a couple in 2021 and wed in a surprise Las Vegas ceremony the following year.At Tuesday night’s Los Angeles premiere ofThis Is Me…Now, Lopezgot emotional while acknowledging Affleck ahead of the screening.“There is the person who inspired this for me, who has inspired me my whole life. He just, he inspired an album 20 years ago and I know he hates that I’m doing this right now,” she said, referring to Affleck and her 2002 albumThis Is Me…Then.“He’s just like, ‘Please shut up.’ No! And I say no. I say, I love you and thank you for believing in me and helping me believe in myself,” she said. “And helping me to grow every single day. Thank you for the family that we’ve created and our children and everything that you do for me.“This Is Me…Now: A Love Storyis on Prime Video Friday.
Jennifer Lopezis opening up about a challenging time with now-husbandBen Affleck.
In a Wednesday interview with Apple Music 1’s Zane Lowe, theHustlersactress, 54, recalls how she and theAirstar, 51, called off their first wedding in September 2003, nearly two decades before theyfinally tied the knot.
“We didn’t break up right at that moment, it happened over the series of the next few months,” explained Lopez, who eventually split from Affleck in January 2004. “Because what it did was it casted doubt in me, and both of us, about what our relationship was and where it was going, I think.”
“I knew in my heart that I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life, I knew that. But it didn’t feel like we were going to make it,” continued Lopez, whose new filmThis Is Me…Now: A Love Storypremieres Friday on Prime Video. “And so, it scared me.”
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck.Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic
Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic
Lopez, whomet Affleck in 2002 while making the movieGigli,said they weren’t “mature enough” to figure out their relationship.
“Even though he was in his late 20s, I was in my early 30s, it still, it wasn’t … we weren’t ready to deal with, and look at each other and go, what we have is real, we need to buckle down, we need to do some work,” she explained. “We just weren’t there yet.”
After their breakup, Lopez married singerMarc Anthony, with whom she shares 15-year-old twins Max and Emme. She and Anthony split in 2011 after seven years of marriage.
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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez at the Los Angeles Special Screening Of “Marry Me” on February 08, 2022 in Los Angeles, California.Frazer Harrison/Getty
Frazer Harrison/Getty
TheArgodirector went on to wedJennifer Garnerin 2005. The couple welcomed Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11, before breaking up in 2015.
“We went, and we both tried, and found other people, and had beautiful children, and had other families, and then even had other relationships after that,” Lopez said in her interview with Lowe.
“It wasn’t until both of us had done, I know for me, a lot of work, and got into a place where I was like, ‘You know what? I’m totally good on my own. I’m chill, I love my life, I have this amazing career that I’ve built for myself, I have these amazing children … I have great friends.’ That’s when he showed back up,” she said.
She and Affleck reunited as a couple in 2021 and wed in a surprise Las Vegas ceremony the following year.
At Tuesday night’s Los Angeles premiere ofThis Is Me…Now, Lopezgot emotional while acknowledging Affleck ahead of the screening.
“There is the person who inspired this for me, who has inspired me my whole life. He just, he inspired an album 20 years ago and I know he hates that I’m doing this right now,” she said, referring to Affleck and her 2002 albumThis Is Me…Then.
“He’s just like, ‘Please shut up.’ No! And I say no. I say, I love you and thank you for believing in me and helping me believe in myself,” she said. “And helping me to grow every single day. Thank you for the family that we’ve created and our children and everything that you do for me.”
This Is Me…Now: A Love Storyis on Prime Video Friday.
source: people.com
